Scared to get married, help!?

Actually, I had some similar fear about men living up to their stereotypes. The bottom line is - if and when you find someone who loves you for who you are, respects you and doesn't want to change or control you, then you will have found a partner in life. When people get married just for the sake of doing it or for fear of being alone or whatever other wrong reason they have, things like cheating and prince/princess complexes start and can lead to divorce and a good taking to the cleaners...don't make the same mistake. Don't get married until you are absolutely sure.